I once heard a female colleague say that if a woman is willing to come out for dinner with you, it means she still has some interest in you. So, whether you have a scene next depends on the final outcome of your date. In fact, this is not only an opportunity for girls to test boys, but also an opportunity for boys to test girls. Whether the two of you are looking at each other or not can be seen from your communication style. There are three types of dating: exploratory dating, serious dating, and gaming dating. Each type of date has its own characteristics, implying different outcomes.
So let's take a look at what types of dates there are together?
The first type: exploratory dating
Exploratory dating mainly occurs between underage boys and girls, and the two are still confused about love, which is just a vague sexual awakening. It is very likely that even young men and girls cannot tell when the seeds of love were planted. Slowly, the seeds begin to sprout, their eyes become blurred, and their hearts begin to tremble. As soon as the buds start to turn into saplings, as long as one of them takes the initiative, dating becomes a natural thing.
The reason why it is called exploratory dating is because both parties on the date are in a state of not knowing much about the opposite sex but very eager to understand, and both want to enter this unknown realm and explore this unknown world. But this relationship has been regarded by parents since childhood as a raging beast, strangling early love in the cradle on the grounds of hindering learning.
For exploratory dating, it should be the scariest and happiest time for everyone! Every day I think about meeting her secretly and chatting with her, but I am afraid of being seen by classmates, known by teachers, and even more afraid of being known by my parents. I cannot say whether the emotions at that time were considered love, but perhaps the ignorance at that time was more of an impulse!
Third type: Gaming dating
Game based dating occurs between adult men and women, but the protagonist of the date often has one or both of them already married, which is often referred to as "cheating". Generally speaking, gaming dating may have some material expenses, but the emotional investment will be relatively low. More often, they want to satisfy their inner desires and may have time to accompany, but the commitment to the relationship is less. For some people, this is a type of dating that is not aimed at marriage, but rather motivated by the pursuit of pleasure.
Summary of Xiaosi's Emotions:
Facing these three types of dating, what is the emotional foundation between them? Today, let's imagine what kind of scene would happen if the male and female protagonists of these three types encountered bandits, robbers, and debauchers during the dating process?
In exploratory dating, young men should raise their cockscowls and rush forward like an angry rooster, vowing to protect their date to the death. Their love is pure and cannot be defiled by others!
A man in a serious dating scene must also put on a desperate posture, and his partner is protected by him and must not be insulted!
But the man in a game based dating may shy away because dating is just a game to him.